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(REPLY) RAPE/ABUSE SAFE HAVEN

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I was molested by my gay cousin when I was 6. Walang nakakaalam kahit sino. Ngyon kinuwento ko siya sa fiance ko, di ako pinaniwalaan at pinagtawanan lang ako. Fuck this
 
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I was molested by my gay cousin when I was 6. Walang nakakaalam kahit sino. Ngyon kinuwento ko siya sa fiance ko, di ako pinaniwalaan at pinagtawanan lang ako. Fuck this
After that, ano sinabi mo sa fiance mo? Does she really think talaga na hindi nangyayari ng ganito sa ating mga lalake no? Sometimes nagiging homophobic ako dahil sa molestiya na nangyari din sa akin dati. Hirap lang din na pag isipan sila ng masama
 
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Letting my other half know kung san ako is not in any way toxic for me. I understand siguro if it reaches to an extent na parang nasasakal ka na, but if not, it's fine
 
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same tol, my biggest regret when she asked for my password talaga, lagi na siyang naghahanap ng pwedeng awayan, lahat nalang pati mag ask ng assignment sa classmate ko basta girl yung i aask or anything basta may puke magagalit na mag aaway na ano ano sasabihin sakin, tas from time to time may ina unfriend siya sa fb ko , may ina unfollow siyang mga pages or something like that in all acc ko. Napaka hirap kasi more than 3 years na kami and I love her but that attitude and mindset is really killing me slowly.
Balitaaaa ditooo, im currently experiencing the same. Gusto ata suntukin ko lahat ng may puke na kumausap sakin
 
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Para po sa mga kayang I-Share ang kanilang mga naging karanasan, Rape, abuse, TOXIC RELATIONSHIP , THIS IS YOUR SAFE HAVEN !!!
please share your stories with us, NO JUDGEMENT, just WARM HUGS!!! STAY SAFE yall. <3
thank youu for starting this thread, hirap magsolo
 
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disclaimer: I know this is a safe haven for these kinds of stuff pero I still just want to put it our there na what I'm about to share is not to hate my x but to share that these kinds of people do exist.


So my x never wanted to fix anything whenever we fight as she would say "ang drama drama mo". All I wanted was to fix what needs to be fixed since I am prepairing myself to be with her. Unfortunately she did not reciprocate whatever love I had for her.

4 years, still a bit new pero never have I ever met with her friends or family. Not even on social media. I'm kinda good looking naman base kela mama at sa kundoktor ng jeep (lol) kidding aside, there's really no plausible reason why she wouldn't introduce me to her folks. But still, I loved her so I let it pass.

Moving on, I felt that I was being abused when we no longer have any intimate time together, maski holding hands or walk beside her was not allowed. One time I tried to hold her hand and guess what? got punched, I know I may be over dramatic pero damn dude, she has an arm that can do damage (strong af).

Still, I let it slide. Kaso the more I let those slide the more it got worse. I understand na kung masira ko yung phone nya dahil naupuan ko it is my responsibility to replace it (which I did). Pero I then realized I am being abused/used when nakaka 3 phone na sya saken. Like (omg) para akong dom na no honey. I'm a horndog I know pero I know my limits, if she does not want to I do not bother para kulitin sya. Pero is that healthy? I am your partner not even a glance/kiss/even hold hands? This all happened after our first year. From the 2nd to the 4th year I mostly got from her was a bad reputation amongst my co-workers/peers/friends as well as words she said that I wish I can unhear as everytime I remember my self esteem goes all the way down.
Not overthinking or anything but she might be cheating.
 
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May mga tao talagang hindi ka makakalimutan kahit gano katagal na lumipas. Ganon pa rin nararamdaman ko ngayon
 
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