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(REPLY) RAPE/ABUSE SAFE HAVEN

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Toxic relationship. Relationship that is not built with trust. Tipong tatanungin kung nasaan ka palagi. Pag na late ka ng konti ng uwi raratratin ka ng tawag (para bang wla ka man lang allowance na mag overtime or matraffic or gawin man lang gusto mo).
Laging chinecheck yung SocMed accounts mo (Kung wla pa kayo sa point na to, wag na wag mong ibibigay password mo sa kanya, PLEASE) - naging standard na kasi to ng mga generations ngayon kaya sobrang toxic cancer ng relationship kahit na konting bagay pagdududahan. Wag ka din mattrap sa guilt trip na may tinatago ka kaya ayaw mo bigay. Kung di nya kya irespeto at pagkatiwalaan ka. May problema sainyo.
Tapos pag sinasaktan kayo, its just gonna be worse.
Im currently in this abusive relationship and its complicated makaalis but im trying slowly
Obsession at its physical form. Hoping mka alis ka ma finally
 
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Para po sa mga kayang I-Share ang kanilang mga naging karanasan, Rape, abuse, TOXIC RELATIONSHIP , THIS IS YOUR SAFE HAVEN !!!
please share your stories with us, NO JUDGEMENT, just WARM HUGS!!! STAY SAFE yall. <3
Sexual Abuse by my tito. I'm male, pero at that time I was about 10 years old. To be honest I look feminine to the point na if hahaba lang yung buhok ko, napapagkamalan na ako agad na babae (kahit din naman short hair akala nila lesbian ako) pero anyways since bata ako pinapahaba na ng parents ko yung buhok ko. Nangayari pa yung pang aabuso in public nakatayong nakatalikod lang si papa sa harap niya din habang hinihimas himas niya yung legs ko, I tried to brush it off pero kinukuha niya yung kamay ko then proceeds to do it again. I never told my parents about what happened and now he's crippled lmao, putol ang isang binti. Buti nga.
 
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SANA MAG INGAT TAYO NGAYON, NASA INUMAN AKO TAPOS YUNG KASAMA KO HINIPUAN YUNG ITLOG KO BABAE PA
 
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Para po sa mga kayang I-Share ang kanilang mga naging karanasan, Rape, abuse, TOXIC RELATIONSHIP , THIS IS YOUR SAFE HAVEN !!!
please share your stories with us, NO JUDGEMENT, just WARM HUGS!!! STAY SAFE yall. <3
disclaimer: I know this is a safe haven for these kinds of stuff pero I still just want to put it our there na what I'm about to share is not to hate my x but to share that these kinds of people do exist.


So my x never wanted to fix anything whenever we fight as she would say "ang drama drama mo". All I wanted was to fix what needs to be fixed since I am prepairing myself to be with her. Unfortunately she did not reciprocate whatever love I had for her.

4 years, still a bit new pero never have I ever met with her friends or family. Not even on social media. I'm kinda good looking naman base kela mama at sa kundoktor ng jeep (lol) kidding aside, there's really no plausible reason why she wouldn't introduce me to her folks. But still, I loved her so I let it pass.

Moving on, I felt that I was being abused when we no longer have any intimate time together, maski holding hands or walk beside her was not allowed. One time I tried to hold her hand and guess what? got punched, I know I may be over dramatic pero damn dude, she has an arm that can do damage (strong af).

Still, I let it slide. Kaso the more I let those slide the more it got worse. I understand na kung masira ko yung phone nya dahil naupuan ko it is my responsibility to replace it (which I did). Pero I then realized I am being abused/used when nakaka 3 phone na sya saken. Like (omg) para akong dom na no honey. I'm a horndog I know pero I know my limits, if she does not want to I do not bother para kulitin sya. Pero is that healthy? I am your partner not even a glance/kiss/even hold hands? This all happened after our first year. From the 2nd to the 4th year I mostly got from her was a bad reputation amongst my co-workers/peers/friends as well as words she said that I wish I can unhear as everytime I remember my self esteem goes all the way down.
 
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Toxic relationship. Relationship that is not built with trust. Tipong tatanungin kung nasaan ka palagi. Pag na late ka ng konti ng uwi raratratin ka ng tawag (para bang wla ka man lang allowance na mag overtime or matraffic or gawin man lang gusto mo).
Laging chinecheck yung SocMed accounts mo (Kung wla pa kayo sa point na to, wag na wag mong ibibigay password mo sa kanya, PLEASE) - naging standard na kasi to ng mga generations ngayon kaya sobrang toxic cancer ng relationship kahit na konting bagay pagdududahan. Wag ka din mattrap sa guilt trip na may tinatago ka kaya ayaw mo bigay. Kung di nya kya irespeto at pagkatiwalaan ka. May problema sainyo.
Tapos pag sinasaktan kayo, its just gonna be worse.
Im currently in this abusive relationship and its complicated makaalis but im trying slowly
Dati nag bigay din Ako Ng password sa 1st gf ko, and it did not end well. Tip for everyone do not give your soc media pass. Magising ugat lang Yan Ng pagseselos and insecurities.
 
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same tol, my biggest regret when she asked for my password talaga, lagi na siyang naghahanap ng pwedeng awayan, lahat nalang pati mag ask ng assignment sa classmate ko basta girl yung i aask or anything basta may puke magagalit na mag aaway na ano ano sasabihin sakin, tas from time to time may ina unfriend siya sa fb ko , may ina unfollow siyang mga pages or something like that in all acc ko. Napaka hirap kasi more than 3 years na kami and I love her but that attitude and mindset is really killing me slowly.
Tip ko is mag open up ka sakanya lods Abt sa nararamdaman mo towards sa ginagawa Niya na ayaw mo. Alam ko di madali to para sa Iba pero trust me it's masmabuti na mag open up kesa magtiis ka nalang
 
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Hope may mag share pa regards sa exp nila. I feel like kinda relate sa mga nababasa ko and it give me some realizations sa nangyayari sa relationship ko right now
 
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