I think dapat both. Why? Kasi if mahal mo lang 50/50 yung chances na hindi mag-work yung relationship. Same sa mahal ka 50/50 chances lang din. Sabi nga dapat palagi balance ang isang relationship para mag-work if ikaw or siya lang ang nag-mamahal it will never work no matter how much you make an effort. So in my conclusion it needs to be both to work it properly give and take kumbaga